August 2012
Black-male couples tend to use condoms regularly... →
A Fat Kawaii Brown Owl: unpopular opinions of a... →
everythingbutharleyquinn:
I would rather fuck in a comfortable position than a complicated “exotic” position, which I find annoying, uncomfortable, tiresome and unpleasurable and more about the appearance than actual mutual pleasure and I blame porn for this and I’m really bored with people…
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What is "Sex Critical" and why should we care... →
radtransfem:
Prof. LD has started a new blog called “Sex Critical” which everyone should read. In the initial post, on the term “sex critical”, she sets out the following tenets:
All forms of sexuality and all sexual representations should be equally susceptible to critical thinking and interrogation about the normative or otherwise ideologies they uphold.
The discursive trappings of...
fuck yeah, hard femme!: Things I Make Fun of You... →
fuckyeahsexeducation:
strippr:
Before you come to the strip club, GrubbyHands, StinkyTeeth, and SwampyBalls, it’s appropriate to take a shower, wash your hands, brush your teeth, and change out of your clothes if you work a physical job or sweat a bit at work. The club is open…
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Latino Sexuality: Sometimes I really try hard to... →
brown-fat-owl:
and not mammies.
Not just motherly.
Not comic reliefs.
We are complex human beings.
I have a sex drive.
A big one at that.
I mean, yeah I gotta sometimes improvise because I can’t be doing gymnast moves and shit or I sometimes just regular positions don’t workout…
eastafrodite:
never trust a man who refers to women as females.
or a woman who does the same.
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♀menos violencia,más orgasmos♀: A big part of body... →
blck-grrl:
I feel like everyone tries to look their best,maybe not all the time, but we do wish to present ourselves in a way thats appealing to the outside world even while fat ya know?
Don’t get me wrong, my middle finger is forever raised high in the air towards body shaming society, but I do walk out…
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Latino Sexuality: Media Justice: Last Post →
wocsurvivalkit:
latinegrasexologist:
my column comes to an end.
I didn’t want to write this post. Who wants to write a “goodbye” or “last post” piece? What I really didn’t want to do was realize this part of my life was wrapping itself up. I was afraid of what that would mean. Then, I put my trust…
we love u b.
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loudblackram:
Sexy Talk with Tyra: QTPOC Tumblrs!
homoarigato:
Asexual POCs Unite
Black Gay Problems
Fuck Yeah Asian Dykes
Fuck Yeah Black Lesbians
Fuck Yeah FTMs of Color
Fuck Yeah MTFs of Color
Fuck Yeah Jot@s
Fuck Yeah LGBTQ Asians
Fuck Yeah LGBTQ Cubans
Fuck Yeah LGBTQ Latinxs
Fuck Yeah Queer People of…
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Sorry if this isn't allowed.
fuckyeahhardfemme:
I’m starting up a blog for tattooed plus sized, trans, WOC, queer, and disabled women, and I’m looking for submissions. http://fyeahtattooedwomen.tumblr.com/
Thanks :)
(generally speaking i’m not too into straight up promos, but this blog sounds most excellent. -lj)
“I will keep resisting, we all will in our own way. We will fight even though we...”
– Kim Crosby - We Are Life (Queer, Gifted & Black)
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“For the erotic is not a question only of what we do; it is a question of how...”
– — Audre Lorde, “Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power” (1978)
[rereading this today and here is where I stopped and had to reflect because I was blown away by the idea that I intentionally shut part or much of myself down the last six months or so to DO. because if I had felt, I would have gone...
“It offends me both as a librarian and a pervert.”
– best comment on 50 Shades of Grey that I’ve heard so far (via arcticgrey)
“To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment we can...”
– Federico García Lorca, Blood Wedding and Yerma (via fernsandmoss)
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Sexy Talk with Tyra: for the HSV2 anon and any... →
sexytalkwithtyra:
A diagnosis can feel like the end of the world at first, but after a while, you learn it’s just one of the many things in life you learn to live with and work around. Sometimes I think of it as a good indicator of someone’s character - would I really want to stick around with someone who’s not…
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: Respect For Trans* People →
strawberreli:
theselfmademen:
Basic Respect For Trans* People
Please use language that corresponds to my gender identity, even if my body does not seem to match, and even when talking about my past.
If you are still adjusting to my transition, it is normal to make mistakes…
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Memories, survival and safety →
crunkfeministcollective:
TRIGGER WARNING This post contains information about sexual violence that may be triggering to survivors.
I know if feels like I been gone for a minute but now I’m back, green tea on ice with a fitted.
Mi familia, it has been a while since I last posted. I have to be honest, for a while it didn’t feel safe to write for the blog. I am an extremely private person. So...
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Black Girl Dangerous: My Body Is Not Your Pastime... →
blackgirldangerous:
by Anis Gisele
The last time someone touched me without my consent, I was at a sweat lodge. We were supposed to part ways by shaking hands with every person and thanking them for their presence. One man my age had been overestimating his rights with me— moving in too close, interrupting…
A Search for Black Power, History, & Culture:... →
wakeupblackpower:
Blade is probably the only male black vampire/vampire hunter that I can mention that’s super well known and super dope.
But he isn’t pictured as this super sex object like most vampires/vampire hunters. I dunno if it would deplete his shwag if he was seen as sexy he wouldn’t be as cool or some…