My queerness exists outside of who I fuck
Take Your Time (Do It Right) by The S.O.S. Band from S.O.S.
The S.O.S. Band - Take Your Time (Do It Right)
i wonder how long it will take my children to realize that one of my bedrock teaching phrases (take your time, do it right), is simply an adaptation of all the time i spent hearing this song in my younger days….
music teaches! it reaches in and preaches to a choir thirsty for truth, here’s just another funky piece of proof—
s.o.s band is my shit, this song is my shit
(Source: lafix, via bitteroreo)
No, you're not qualified to answer that question. Not at all. You admit you aren't, but then you give advice anyway. The dynamics of spousal abuse are WAY TOO COMPLICATED for you to say anything unless you know the background.
Thank you for answering. I don't really have anyone to talk to and wanted an opinion from someone neutral, so thank you. I think more than anything, I needed to read / hear someone say that the violence is unacceptable, regardless of our sex / gender. I really feel like as a straight man, I'm supposed to just deal with this or be ok with it and I feel guilty that I'm not. So I appreciate the outside perspective. You're right of course, my retaliation was wrong too. Thanks again
Certainly. Take good care and really think if there’s anyone you can call.