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because black feminist sex is the best sex ever...this site was created by those of us having and committed to having transformative erotic experiences with/as black feminists. (and both! oh both!!!!!!)

this is also a wake up call to anyone who insists on intimacy without accountability, condones violence against black women, or refuses to be transformed by the ecstatic miracle that black women exist. you are seriously missing out.


come correct.
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so-treu:

isabelthespy:

so-treu:

unasenoraviejaenfuego:

blackamazon:

isthisfeminist:

This woman is apologizing for using an offensive word in her youth. IS THIS FEMINIST? 
Absolutely not. Real feminists come out of the womb quoting bell hooks, and come complete with a force field that keeps them from absorbing negative cultural ideas. Indeed, feminist theory and analysis are irrelevant to personal growth because real feminists are born perfectly politically correct and never need to learn and grow. We just write those analyses for fun; they certainly aren’t there to educate. Everyone should always be treated like who they were at their worst moment. PROBLEMATIC.

Actually you completely idiotic TWATS?
Yes they should be treated as who tehya re at their worst moment.
BEcause when shit gets real. When we are dealing with death threats and 25-30 % assault rapes
YOu ABSOLUTELY SHOULD BE JUDGED ON WHAT YOU DO UNDER PRESSURE.
And if you’re under qualified ass wants to educate… you better come ready TO EDUCATE
because straight up
qualified sexologists, theroists, activists
aren’t getting a THIRD of the opportunities HANDED to you’re lazy cowardly asses with THREE TIMES as much flack 
and when pushed you over in titled under talented broads are hiding behind your money, your porcelain hooha and whatever dude you scraped up and browbeat into your service 
doing LESS THAN NOTHING.
so yeah when you are trying to use nothinG BUT THAT to be come an expert and then failing because  thats what happen when you have no ATCUAL QUALIFICATIONS but That same nepotism
to giveterrible shitty HARMING advice
yeah who you are at your worst moment isn’t your negative culture ideas
it’s your fucking ego
and ain’t nobody here signed unto be in service to that

Damn it, if you’re going in, I’m going in.
Let’s see if this floats:
You shouldn’t judge a fellow by his worst moment. Who’s harmed by one lil’ ol’ rape joke really?
—oh shit, that launched another 5000-word essay on the evils of rape culture (when it harms white cis women)! I’m sorry, BA! I had no idea that would happen. I’ll get that cleaned up right away.
And to prove I’m operating in good faith, I’ll even flip this around and grant isthisfeminist a point: It is a bit harsh to judge you by your worst moments, so let’s not do that. Let’s judge you by one of your best:

The rule of thumb that generally–though not always–applies in my experience is to look and see who finds the dark joke funny. If the people laughing the hardest are the people with the most privilege, then your joke probably isn’t working. If the most privileged people are squirming with discomfort while everyone else is howling with laughter, you’ve probably got a winner.

Whoops, that best moment was six fucking years ago and magically no longer applied once you were among the people with the most privilege.
Kind of almost exactly like … now.

it ain’t a coincidence they used bell hooks name too. coded attack at WOC.

man I wasn’t actively planning to reblog this because oy [newly fired from the blog YouTube personage], but what so-treu said is so fucking important. and no, I don’t think it was intentional; I also don’t give a fuck, because yes that is ABSOLUTELY how it plays out in practice, and if your reaction to that is to defend people because oh, they didn’t mean it that way, you REALLY need to consider how highly you prioritize ending racism, by which I mean, you need to put it higher. it is complete bullshit to use bell hooks as an example of “advanced” “201” feminist ideas, and it is evidence that you do not consider racism part of the intro class, which also: bullshit! there is no reason, none at all, to use hooks instead of any of a dozen white feminists especially maybe one of those who is considerably less accessible than hooks, unless what is inaccessible and advanced is being asked to place racism and white supremacy at the same level of importance as sexism and misogyny. using bell hooks (which happens ALL THE TIME when people are trying to ignore reveals an automatic association of women of color with being advanced or “difficult,” which, hi bullshit.

further, isthisfeminist is run by JESSICA VALENTI. who should know better on every fucking count. but you that thing they say about zebras and their stripes.
who also just got 48k from harvard to develop a feminist think tank. yes, this is f*eminism. a racist cis white woman protecting another racist transphobic cis white woman in the name of white womanhood.
aka feminism.




reblogging cuz i still get mega hits from this link, which i find…..interesting.

and cuz apparently isthisfeminist has started posting again, soooooo…………
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